Reality Culture

Somewhere between beating a man to death and cowering on the sidelines while children are being murdered, there is a happy medium.

I don't trust the police. I don't want anything to do with the police. I'm not a paranoid hillbilly living off the grid and weaving stories of how the government is out to get me. I know the government is out to get me, in ways big and small.

If you believe in God, in the two sexes, in the Constitution, in the virtues of masculinity, in personal responsibility, in color blindness, in fair elections, in border integrity, in fiscal responsibility, and/or in the free market, you are an enemy of nearly every power that exists today.

Don't listen to the brunette with the big tits. Frankly, she moves her lips but adds nothing to the conversation that I can discern. But listen to the smart blond chick who she has on at about the 35 second mark. And the video below should start at that point.



Some of the comments to that video definitely reflect Reality Culture, such as this one:



This isn't bad either:



And the last sentence in this one could be the very Official Theme of Reality Culture:



The feminist movement has been based on lies. Those who say "It started well, but got off track" have no idea what the feminist movement was about or who was promoting it. But in any area of social life, if you been fed a bunch of self-serving lies, it will lead to that "complete lack of self awareness." And that is why Reality Culture needs to exist in the first place. The self-deluding that is going on in our culture is ginormous. Hey, you even have men thinking they are girls.

And I do believe a number of women have been turned into little princess Nazis because of this factor:



Speaking to that point, another commenter said:



And there's not much I can add to this:

One of the interesting aspects is that I'm not on the dating circuit...and presumably neither are you or Mr. Artler. We have to learn second-hand from reports here and there.

It's good to watch out for confirmation bias. But we're seeing more and more reports – as lips become loosened for one reason or another – of just how much today's women repel the men.

Granted, there's another side to this as well. Maybe a lot of the men are just making excuses. Many, we know, are sitting at home playing video games instead of securing a career. The toxicity of feminism is just another aspect for them, and it may not even be the deciding one.

But my gut tells me that men have always been slobs to some degree. But useful slobs. I think (know, really) that women's expecations are completely out of whack with reality, no matter the shortcomings of the men.

I can't do better than what the blond chick said. If women become de facto men, why would men want them? There are things men need from women. And none of these things are masculine traits...unless, as that blond chick said, they are gay men.

But most men (duh) are not homosexuals. Most men just want a little feminine TLC. They want to be respected and admired. Yes, this also needs to be earned to a large degree. Even so, in interpersonal relationships, there is a certain amount of social lubrication required (white lies, if you will) needed for a good relationship.

And I would bet my bottom dollar (the top one as well) that today's women do not have it in them to be anything but the little-princess center-of-attention. She has had it too easy. She has had it all her way. None of these is news to me. But I'm not on the dating circuit so I don't have first-hand accounts. But all the signs were there.

You may not be a structural engineer, but you can see that the roof is leaking. You see that the boards are rotting. You see the mice in the rafters. And you know the building is going to collapse just from the logic of physics.

And there is a logic to social behavior as well. If you approach relationships from a self-centered narcissistic point of view, good luck finding any takers. And that is what women face. The have become toxic. We know for a fact that political correctness and "wokeness" forbids most from offering valid criticism and advice to the little princesses. So they acquire unrealistic expectations.

And reports are firm from all quarters that women, in general, have never been so unhappy. Well….stop ball-busting men and don’t be afraid to act like a woman. Stop trying to be the man. Leave room for the man to be that.

In my time I have know several remarkable women. My first wife, we married much too early, but to get away from her I followed my father into the USMC and until 1976 I pretty much swore off women. After returning from the 73 war I spent two years as a functional drunk. The love of my life found me, loved me and rehabilitated me. More than any other she showed me that love and respect are compatible. In 1979 she and our son moved to Israel where she received her doctorate in psychology and in 1996 was murdered. There has been a hole in my heart since. We were never formally married but the tie exists to this day. My second wife/third wife was an Air Force brat we had one son and were married for 22 years. One other wife which did not last long she was raising a son a a single parent, too much drama and we called it quits after four years. My current wife and I are in our 14th year. Life in retirement for both of us is still a challenge but livable. there are good men and women everywhere.

I wonder, why those under 30 are so disoriented about the who, where, what, when and why of life. We are all faced with death, sooner or later. If there is one god that cannot be defeated it is death, but we can say, "not today you bastard" Modern youth seems incapable of saying not today. They appear to desire death in all it's brutal any myriad forms. We are opposed by a death cult and in the long run there will be blood. 

You have a remarkable life story. And it seems to be filled with some good women...and maybe some who are so-so.



One of the Kungian themes around here is the unreality bred by watching a lifetime of false images and hearing false messages, whether in advertising, politics, the media, or movies and TV shows.

"Real" is up for grabs. These days, many can't even confess the reality of a man and a woman. With that up for grabs, what else isn't? And what does it do to a mind and soul that has grown up on wall-to-wall delusions and lies?

Almost all the images we see are false or doctored. If women have an unrealistic idea of what it is to be a woman, can you blame them if all they see as the ideal are faked and Photoshopped images of the perfect woman? One can see (and perhaps even understand) a rebellion under the guise of treating fat women as normal, although I still mostly see that as an offshoot of man-hating feminism. But surely a large element of rejecting the falsehood of fashion could be implicit in that.

I was watching one of Louis Rossmann's videos the other day about Samsung "shadow banning" comments to a AMA (ask me anything) they did on Reddit. Samsung was famous for making commercials that mocked Apple for deleting the headphone jack from their phones. But now that Samsung has done the same thing, all those old advertisements have apparently been scrubbed from the web.

And in this AMA, some (including Louis) asked a question that included "When are you going to add a headphone jack to your phone?" And here's the interesting bit, although I don't purport to have first-hand knowledge. But what they can apparently do is delete the comments so that others don't see your comment but you still can (thus you don't know that your comment was deleted). But you can apparently get around this by logging in with some kind of anonymous web browser where you can indeed then see that your comment was deleted.

So falsehood is becoming mainstream, and way beyond the normal exaggeration of advertisers or even politicians. We are regularly being told absolute lies and being manipulated in sinister ways.

And all this can't help but boil down and poison the relationships between men and women. Perhaps it is meant to. In the Kungian view, this is taken as self-evident.

Which brings us back to the expected central corrective aspect of the Kungian Reformation. It will (in this theory) be driven by experiencing the pain of all these hair-brained schemes of the Left (and the passive complicity of the right).

Like a giant societal kidney stone. We, of course, wish for a relaxed and pleasant day for Mr. Flu after his recent passing, as it were. But it could be a harbinger of things to come for the rest of society that is "stoned" in a very real way.

Article in AG on the differences of a population and a people. I would say nation rather then people but that is a small difference.


amgreatness.com/2023/03/02/are-we-a-population-or-a-people/

For people are not united by geopolitical boundaries, political machinery, or constitutional by-laws. They can be united only by what transcends their time, their place, and their economic or political interests.

It is widely known among almost every nation that Americans of every creed, ethnic or religious ideals can be easily spotted just walking down a street. Americans stand out in a crowd. the world can spot us almost anywhere.

It is culture that gives people a chance to learn to speak to one another about the most important things in life, and they do so speak, not only across the backyard fence but across hundreds of years and thousands of miles.

It is one of the marvelous benefits of being a southerner that the rich culture of the South can be instantly spotted in a crowd. Some time a simple head nod conveys everything that need be said, and other times lead to a long conversation between complete strangers, sharing their life, their misfortunes, and loves. It is a southern thing, but by extension also an American thing.

When American jurists ruled that the sacred texts of the Christian and Jewish faiths must be treated as anathema in our schools, it was as if they had said that there must not be an American people
It was as if someone had taken a knife to the nation’s soul and performed a spiritual lobotomy, so that people would no longer have the words to talk to each other about glory; so that Americans, when they did happen to encounter Ahab in his fury, raising his fist against the God who spoke to Job from the whirlwind, would be, at best, like cheerfully dopey tourists gaping up at the windows in Notre-Dame de Paris, and saying, “Gosh, they’re big. I wonder what they’re about?”—and then looking back toward the door, because they sense that they should feel something or know something, but they don’t, and they don’t.

That makes me think of the ghastly hollow verbal sound-effect of an unrooted population merely mimicking a people when I hear "Stay safe." I instinctively cringe but never before (until I read this article and your observation about unstated, hat-tipping Southerness) did I understand why.